Grandmas are special

My grandma turned 84 this week! She is such an inspiration and joy to those around her. Although she has been through her share of life's troubles and woes, she remains lively and hopeful. I'm sure it's her faith that has brought her through divorce, illness, death and many other challenges that some never endure. Only when she is not feeling well does she not have a smile on her face. And, often when I stop by she is reading. Sometimes she is reading the Bible or she is reading something else about faith or politics.

Funny story about visiting my grandma on her birthday. She told me she wanted a new purse so I spent time trying to find one that wasn't a suitcase because I knew she wouldn't want one that is too big. I found a perfect size Tommy Hilfiger bag that was on sale. She loved it. But, when I was almost home she called me and I could tell she was bothered in her voice. She asked, "how much did you pay for that purse?" I giggled. Then I asked her what the price tag said. She anxiously said, "$79.00!" I laughed and assured her I got a good deal. She said she was going to tell me take it back!

Memaw, as we call her, is a bit spicy at times. She has the biggest heart, is passionate about life and faith and  worries more about others around her than herself. I have learned so many wonderful life lessons from sitting on her porch swing or in her den. Most of all, i have learned by example. She doesn't have any musical talent but she can sure bless your socks off by sending you a thoughtful card. My grandma isn't active in the community but she loves her family like crazy. My grandma isn't the most fashionable but she taught me how to be a classy lady. And, she may not have a lot of material things to account for but she has a heart full of love.

I wrote my grandma a song earlier this year called More of Me In You. I'd like to share one of the lyrics:

"you're a rock, a pillar, a safe place to go..."

At 84 years old, my grandma goes to church every Sunday and visits with her friends in Sunday school. My grandma still gardens as she can and walks almost daily. She calls her friends and family on a regular basis to check on us all. She cooks and takes food to our family in nursing homes and visits. And, she reads a lot. I believe my grandma sees every day as a new gift from God and doesn't take a breath for granted. She's a lovely lady and a blessing to so many.

~April

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